Thursday, September 11, 2014

You'll Live

Do I choose the strawberry Banana, or pick up Odwalla's? I pondered, wondering which one was a better buy in nutritional value. My night at Starbucks should be be nice, and the last thing to make it sour will be choosing the wrong fruit juice for company---let me take a closer look. So I thought, and thought, and read the labels over and over again, trying to find a reason to pick one over the other.


Mommy!” came the murmuring voice of a child next to the fruit juice section. “Mommy!” the voice came again, and followed by a plaintive, buzzing plea. “You'll live,' I heard an adult female voice say in response. 
 

How fitting these words are for what I was internally contemplating throughout the week. I turned to see a pretty mother with her son clutching onto her right leg. Her son seemed about 5 years old, and was all up in complaint for the cold temps in HEB's fruit juice and vegetables section.

“Mom, it's cold!” He went on. His mom without looking downward at her son, and purposefully looking to pick out her vegetables, assuredly repeated: “You'll live.” I turned a quick glance again, and saw the certainty of her words on her face: She knew beyond all doubt that the cold would do her son no harm.


I got engaged with this scene. I repeated her words to draw her attention, which she gave, and looked down at her son with a smile, who also realizing my presence looked up at me. I sent a hello his way, which he hid from, holding onto mommy's right leg much more firmly. “Why don't you say hello back?” His mom said. 
 

We got into a quick chat, the lady and I. I asked of her family, and she readily told me of her four children, three of whom were also in the store with her, but were with their dad, an isle way, towards the bread section. Her fourth, a baby girl, she pointed at to show me---she was strapped into her carriage and placed safely within the front part of her dad's shopping cart, his eyes close-by for guard. A nice family, I thought to myself, and I enjoyed the exchange. 
 

Small talk all this was, so soon it was time to part ways. She walked farther down the fruit juice section, son in tow.

I walked away thinking it all over, after I choose both Odwalla's smoothie and Bolthouse Farm's Strawberry Banana---why not try them both, I had decided. 
 

You'll live? I questioned. How fitting, these words, and perfect dose for most of life's ails. The odds may be stacked against us, the circumstances (to us) may not bode well, the job is in a little way fulfilling, and the relationship is locked in stalemate, or headed for the rocks and often the search long. 
 

Yet the parallels of that and the scene in the store are not stretched---the settings are not very different from the cold temps in the store that day, for the little boy. But her older and wiser mom, loving nonetheless, knowing well what the end is, and the benefit of the moment for years to come in perseverance, assuredly says: You will live. 
 

And so the the great One above, of greater love, and understanding, and purpose, often in response to our ceaseless cries for relief from cold or hot temperatures, says: You'll live. And in living, hope. 
 

Thanks, everybody.

Thursday, September 4, 2014

A Dime

Oliver Wendell Holmes once attended a meeting in which he was the shortest man present."Doctor Holmes," quipped a friend, "I should think you'd feel rather small among us big fellows." "I do," retorted Holmes, "I feel like a dime among a lot of pennies."
                                                                
                                                                                                    ----Source Unknown.

Thursday, August 28, 2014

To Patience

Oh Patience...
You are a perfecter of things
We ignore you, and pay for it
I am yet to see the man prosper who bypasses you

Oh patience, you are awesome
You bring all things into perfect harmony
You bring the baby to birth
You bring the tree to full bloom, and the fruit, too

Oh patience, no man great has done without you
You are needed for all things wise
You are needed for all loves perfect
You are needed for all things built to last

Oh patience, you are from the First
The great King had you in the beginning
And after He calls time, you will remain
Yet how strong is your friendship with time!

And He tells me to get you
In adversity, you are unmoving
In haste, you laugh at men
In trickery, you shake your head


You are to be desired
And for you, I pine

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Part 2: Learning Tools

 Here, part 2 of some online tools to help us to learn a few things. Again, let's exercise good judgement in accessing them, for the options could be endless.


Most of MIT’s courses available to take for free online.


Hundreds of free, trackable online classes.


Not nearly as many courses, but a good start. Audio and video too.


It’s amazing what iTunes has available for free. Courses from hundreds of universities. Some include: Cambridge, Stanford, Berkeley, and Ivy League’s. 


Credit: Created by Scott Dinsmore of www.liveyourlegend.net
 


Thursday, August 14, 2014

Sorrow

In this sad world of ours, sorrow comes to all,
and it often comes with bitter agony.
Perfect reliet is not possible,
except with time.
You cannot now believe that you will ever feel better.
But this is not true.
You are sure to be happy again.
Knowing this,
truly believing it,
will make you less miserable now.
I have had enough experience to make this statement.
                                                                                                         -----Abraham Lincoln.

Thursday, August 7, 2014

Some Tools To Help Us Learn

The web has quite a number of resources for learning lots of things. Let's get to know them, for knowledge is power, and our world is not in the least bit static. 

Also, please feel free to bring to the blog other tools you find online.

*Note from Scott's blog: Some of these sites and tools were found via the awesome resources at Uncollege.org.

And let us also use good judgment in accessing these tools, minding time and effort---a multitude of choices can be blinding, too.

Courses on just about any subject you want. Create your own or take from others.

Another spot to create your own course or take from others. Mainly technology, web development, lifestyle and business.

Over 2k videos. Great for basic and advanced course in math, sciences and history. For elementary school on up.

Free college education over the web.

Hundreds of free online multimedia training courses.

Is there any better place to learn how to code?

This is actually for live, in-person learning but very cool online platform. You can also teach your own classes to others.

A crowd sourcing type of model for creating courses and teaching.

Credit: Created by Scott Dinsmore of www.liveyourlegend.net

Thursday, July 24, 2014

Fragile Things

As the fragile sapling, so is faith, often, in its infancy...

 
Working on a new project?   Starting a new friendship?   Believing for a spouse?

A new opportunity? Is it shaky, your faith?   Unsure where it will all end?

Consider the great Hand underneath you...and the sapling is not forever a sapling.

 
Credit: photo from http://brokenbelievers.com/ 

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Paradigm Shift

In countless years past a man had a convo with God. What do you see? 

God and Jeremiah...

God: Jeremiah, What do you see?

Jeremiah: I see the rod of an almond tree

God: You have seen well...




Pen down---the Word and picture says more than I can write. Thanks.

Credits: photo from Janefriedman.com

Thursday, July 10, 2014

The Cracked Pot

A water bearer in India served his master by toting water from the stream to his master's home. He carried the water in two pots that hung on either end of a pole balanced across his shoulders.

One of the pots had a crack in it; the other pot was perfect. The perfect pots always delivered a full portion of water from the stream, while the cracked pot always arrived at the master's house only half full.

For a full two years this went on, every day the water bearer delivering one full and one half full measures of water to the master's home. Naturally, the full pot was proud of his service, perfect to the end for which it had been made. But the cracked pot was unhappy; ashamed of its imperfection, miserable that it was only able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do.

After an eternity of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, the cracked pot spoke to the water bearer one day. “I am so ashamed of myself,” it said. “I want to apologize to you.”

But why?” asked the water bearer.

For the past two years,” spoke the pot, “this crack in my side has let water leak out all the way to the master's house, and I have been unable to deliver but half my load. You do the work carrying me from the stream to our master's house each day, but because of my defect, you don't get full value from your effort,” sighed the anguished pot."

Kindly, the water bearer told the distressed pot, “As we return to our master's house today please notice the lovely flowers along the way.”

As the trio returned up the hill, the old cracked pot noticed the winsome wild flowers---the sun glistening off the their bright faces, the breeze bending their heads. But still, at the end of the trail, the faulty pot felt bad because it had again leaked out half its load, and again apologized to the bearer for its failure.

But the bearer said to the pot, “Did you notice that the flowers were only on your side of the path? Because I have always known about your 'flaw' I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we wind our way back from the stream, you have watered them. And every day I am able to pick these beautiful flowers to adorn our master's table. Were you not just the way you are, the master would not have had this beauty to grace his house.

Willy McNamara.

Out of “The chicken Soup For The Unsinkable Soul.”

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Lines

I looked at my palms today
I saw lines
Lines for what? 

I lift a cup, and can raise it up to my lips
I pick up a spoon, and it does not slip
I dig my hands into food, and feed myself

I shake a man's hand, and his lines and mine register
I grab a tree limb to climb, and my hold is sure
I rub my palms to wash, when dirty

I dip my hand into lotion, and smear my body

I hold a traveling bag's hand, and it's secure
I turn a door knob, and it's with ease

I grab a pen, and it stays held
I flip the pages of a book, and something picks the page
I turn the cap of a bottle, and my strength is nothing without the lines.

A man has said in his heart, “There is no God.”

Thursday, June 26, 2014

The Power Of Forgiveness

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.
---Chinese Proverb


In 1974, walking home from school the last day before Christmas vacation, I excitedly thought about the upcoming holiday as only ten year old boys can dream. A few doors from my home in Coral Gables, Florida, a man came up to me and asked if I would help him with the decoration for a party he was hosting for my father. Thinking that he was a friend of my dad's, I agreed to go with him.

What I didn't know was that this man held a grudge against my family. He had been employed as a nurse for an elderly relative, but he was fired because of his drinking.

After I agreed to accompany him, he drove his motor home to an isolated area north of Miami, where he stopped by the side of the road and stabbed me with an ice pick. He then drove west to the Florida Everglades, walked me out among the bushes, shot me through the head and left me to die.

Fortunately, the bullet passed behind my eyes and exited my right temple without causing any brain damage. When I regained consciousness six days later, I was unaware that I had been shot. I sat by the side of the road and was found by a man who stopped to help me.

Two weeks later, I described the person who had assaulted me to a police artist, and my uncle recognized the resulting portrait as the man who attacked me. My assailant was brought in, along with other suspects. However, the trauma and stress took its toll, and I couldn't identify him. Unfortunately, the police could not obtain any physical evidence to link him to the crime, so he was never charged.

The assault left me blind in my left eye, but otherwise uninjured, and with the love and support of my family and friends, I went back to school and resumed my life.

For the next three years, I lived with tremendous anxiety. Most nights I woke up frightened, imagining I heard someone coming in the back door, and I'd wind up sleeping at the foot of my parents' bed.

Then when I was thirteen, all that changed. One night, during a Bible study with my church youth group, I realized that God's providence and love, having miraculously kept me alive, were the basis for my life's security. In His hands, I could live without fear or anger. And so I did. I finished school, earning a bachelor's degree and a master's in divinity. I married my wonderful wife, Leslie. We have two beautiful toddlers, Amanda and Melodee.

In September of 1996, Major Charles Scherer of the Coral Gables Police Department, who had worked on the original investigation of my case, called me to tell me that the 77 year old assailant had finally confessed. Blind from glaucoma, in poor health, without family or friends, he was in a North Miami Beach nursing home. I visited him there.

The first time there I went to see him, he apologized for what he had done to me, and I told him that I had forgiven him. I visited him many times after that, introducing him to my wife and girls, offering him hope and some semblance of family in the days before his death. He was always glad when I came by. I believe that our friendship eased his loneliness and was a great relief to him after twenty two years of regrets.

I know the world might view me as the victim of a horrible tragedy, but I consider myself the “victim” of many miracles. The fact that I'm alive and have no mental deficiencies defies the odds. I've got a loving wife and a beautiful family. I've been given as much promise as anybody else---and ample opportunities. I've been blessed in a lot of ways.

And while many people can't understand how I could forgive him, from my point of view I couldn't not forgive him. If I'd chosen to hate him all these years, or spent my life looking for revenge, then I wouldn't be the man I am today---the man my wife and children love.


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By Chris Carrier
Submitted By Katy Mcnamara
Out of the Chicken Soup for the Unsinkable Soul book.

Thursday, June 12, 2014

A Tale On Lake Travis: A View

The sun turned out to make it just the day for it. The mailer had made its rounds leading up to it, and the notice had registered: It's the day for the boat ride, Saturday, and Volente, Texas, the place

Wow, it was difficult getting here,” Kehinde said on arrival. “Yeah,” Obi agreed. I thought differently, but I was not behind the steering wheel, so my comment counts for less. Yet, I think the dips, curves, swerves, and immediate hills on the way there made for a bit of an uneasy drive.

Okay, we are here; that's the good part.

All dressed for the dip, Bro. Akin, walks in, and takes in the chats underneath the tree. We had taken refuge from the sun under it. His sons follow, ever present where daddy is. Nice family, these are.

Bro. Akin ushers in a sort of quick year look back. Unwilling as most youth are, we offer quick 'all's wells' to move the topic along. Yeah, it will take quite a bit to go over the last 5 months. Let's get to the boat I sensed was the feeling hovering.

Not denying our trust, we take in the prayer in a circle, hands in hands. The tree was a nice shade, I thought. The prayer is said for safety aboard the boat and in the water, but home affairs back at the sanctuary are not left out. Pastor Doyin gets his due in the words offered.

'Away, let's go!' is the spirit we all feel: all head to the boats. I am making a judgment in my head on where exactly the swimming part will take place. These are open waters, and I wonder where room could be made for dipping.

Cowboy And Company

Yeah, he wore it: Obi the cowboy. The hat atop his head was not bad at all, as was his good company on the other boat: Mayowa, Bro. Akin, Nana, Rita, Nike, Sister  Uju and her boys. And it was funny seeing him play sheriff on the boat, standing behind the boat driver and watching over everyone else. Amusing, that pose was. Too bad I couldn't get him and Mayowa into the water.

Giddy Moves

Well that says it all, right? The grips on our boat's railing get firmer as the boat makes unsteady moves on the lake. Vincent thinks lightly of it though, keeping his hand on the wheel, but our riders are not in the same mind: no where is solid ground to be had, and folks are taking no chances. Grips get firmer still.

Laughter breaks out all around, and the life jackets come into play. Deji throws his over his head. Wise man, I think: safety first. Yeah, but the boat's dance on the water was welcome for me, for before then it was just sitting and looking, a little on the boring side, save for taking photos.

So, right, swing this craft some more. Nerves do have a way of making things exciting and are again the reason we will all remember this.

The Dip

Into the water first, Bro. Akin, takes the lead. I look closely at the water, judging it's fitness for swimming. Others got ready on both boats to take a dip, and precautions are not forgotten: life jackets and all.

Yeah, daring Vincent. He dives into the water, which we all look closely at, unsure of the water's depth. Guy's good, though, could swim, and showed little trouble in mid-water. A brave sister follows, Fredba. Kudos.

Nkem joins in, and Sister Uju's boys also want to have a go at it. Auntie Nike's watchful eye had them covered till now. Tsife gets a feel of the water with dad's help, but fright leaves his younger brother no room, on his turn. Yet daddy's safe hand is close-by. Oh, kids, they'll grow, and punch 'fear' in the teeth soon.

Little-riskers also sit on the boat's edge and kick water: Kehinde, Mayowa, Obi, and others. A very safe fun that is. It's all good.

Grace and company, Rita, choose another dare: going up the rocky hill on the shore. Well, that seems like a good alternative, as I watch them stand atop the hill and look over and at all that's before and below. Nice view, ha, gals?

A quick dip will be good for me, too, so I take it. The water's not too kind though, as it made it's way into my mouth---Can't avoid getting wet when swimming, right? I might as well take it in stride.

Wrap

'No Wake Zone' shows up again on our way back, signaling time up. Both boats moored, and we all heard back. We all thank the Lord, funny faces get their turn in whole group pictures, and 'see yas' are exchanged.

A good time, this was. It was nice seeing all come out. A cyber toast to all.

Memories...glues...friendships...and no waste of ink, penning this.

..............................


Acknowledgments: Mayowa, Obi, Kingston, Rita, Grace, Nike, Fredba, Vincent, Deji, Kehinde, Nana, Bro. Akin and Family, Nkem...and all.



Thursday, June 5, 2014

Who's Going To Stop Me?

Six year old Angie and her four year old brother, Joel, were sitting together in church. Joel giggled, sang, and talked out loud. Finally, his big sister had had enough.

You are not supposed to talk out loud in church.”
Why? Who’s going to stop me?” Joel asked.

Angie pointed to the back of the church and said, “See those two men standing by the door? They are hushers.”




Richard Lederer
From: Chicken Soup For The Christian Soul.

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Spirituality

The word 'spirituality' means different things to different people. To some, it means praying and fasting, attending church services regularly, and being a part of God’s work. To others, it is having a close and consistent relationship with God, and staying away from sin. 
 
According to Watchman Nee, the author of the book- The Spiritual Man, “Being spiritual means belonging to the Holy Spirit.” Salvation does not in any way guarantee spirituality. In other words, a believer can still live and walk in the flesh. The key to becoming a spiritual believer is complete obedience to the Holy Spirit; a daily task that must not be neglected. When we do not rely on our own understanding, strengths or capabilities, we give the Holy Spirit enough room to shape and direct our lives in accordance with God’s will and purpose. 
 
It is important to note that religious activities such as church attendance, prayer and fasting, are not in any way frivolous except without the working of the Holy Spirit. I Corinthians 12: 4-13, Acts 1:8, Acts 9: 31, Rom 8: 23, 26- 27, John 7:38 reveal a few of the works and significance of the Holy Spirit: what He can do for and through us. The power and working of the Holy Spirit can only be made manifest when we acknowledge, accept, and give him preeminence over our lives.

Thanks. 

Monday, May 19, 2014

A Spark Of His Benevolence

It was my first year in college, and I had just resumed for the the second semester. I opened the hostel room where I will be lodged for the rest of the semester.It was a room for four students, and I was the only one among the four that had resumed. I walked into the room, went straight to my bed corner, dropped my bag on the floor, and sat on the bed and wondered what awaited me the rest of the semester.

Life in Enugu was a bit different from the life I was used to in the federal capital in Abuja. Unlike most parts of the country it was religiously more stable and tribally more homogenous, but it lacked good security and economic prosperity, and hence it had a high crime rate and that plagued the city.

I reached for the light switch, turned it downwards to switch it on, and as I did, I realized it was dead. I tried this several times to confirm, and yes it was indeed dead. Night was approaching, and I didn’t want to sleep in the dark---no not on an Enugu campus. So I quickly went out of the room to a near by kiosk to buy a light bulb but the trader said he had ran out of light bulbs. I went to another, and he didn't have any. I checked the third and fourth kiosk, and they didn't have it either. This got me thinking.

I went all around the campus and it seemed all the kiosks had ran out of bulbs, too; but I was so determined not to sleep in the dark room that I went out of my way and went outside the campus walls in search of a light bulb---still no bulbs. This was very strange. Well, I gave up and went back to the campus, and to my room. I accepted my fate---I will have to sleep without the light this night, and continue the search the next day, hoping to make it through the night. I fell asleep.


Though I was asleep, I felt a bit of discomfort as if something was not right. it was about 3.am in the morning, and I thought I heard some whispering in the dark, this further troubled my sleep a bit, but I was not sure what was going on. But I knew these were my neighbors from the next room, and tried to make out what the whispers were about. I got up and walked over to the next room, and found the guys there gathered on the balcony, discussing something.

It was an odd time to find guys in a discussion, it seemed. When they saw me they looked at me in shock and awe, as though I was some alien.“O boy, u dey there?” they asked, meaning If indeed i had been in my room. I answered, “Yes O, Wetin happen?” I meant what was going on.

And they began to narrate their ordeal with an armed bandit just an hour before---some robbers has just ransacked their room, beat them up, and took all their valuables. The robbers split up in two---some of them went through the rooms taking away belongings, and the others stood in front of the hostel rooms, and some of these stood right in front of my room.

So the only reason they did not come into my room was because it was dark, and they weren't sure if someone was in. This kept them from taking the chance to find out. 

I was saved.

My thoughts immediately flashed to memories on how my light bulb had died the night before, how I went through all that trouble seeking to buy one, and found none. I thought of how unlucky I was to have slept in the dark. But here I am hearing this frightening tale.

I felt overwhelmingly fortunate. I was in such a shock I didn’t know how to thank the Lord, and I couldn’t explain why He did that for me. At the time, I wasn’t even that spiritual or that prayerful even, yet He was watching over me.

So, guys, we never know how much our disappointments could actually be a blessing: the Lord watches over His own. 

Over the years, I find myself reminiscing on this miracle through future experiences as it formed a bedrock of reference for my trust in the Lord.

And this was just a tip of the iceberg of yet many more mind blowing and heart warming experiences that followed. Praise God!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Money

You've got to read his book---Gifted Hands,” the pastor said. “His story amazes me, how a young black mother here in America was able to raise two black boys into fine citizens, one of them in particular...." I sat in church and listened. I wondered a bit---why this man's story was a major fixture of the sermon today.

The day was a sunday, at Salvation Center, and the Preacher was Pastor Doyin Oke. He'd recently read the book by renowned neurosurgeon Dr. Ben Carson.

I thought of the story a while, trying to measure it's weight. I spent a few minutes, and simply left it to lie. 

And then I found myself wandering the isles of the Barnes and Noble bookstore at the Arboretum here in Austin, and the book showed up, and it beckoned: Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson Story. Is this not the very book the pastor talked about? I thought. Yeah, it is. Well, let's see what's in here.

I read it a bit---not bad, I thought, after a few pages. But I kept reading, and reading, and the clock struck 10pm, closing time for the bookstore. I had to leave. I could not put the book down. Either buy it or put it back on the rack---I had to decide. I bought it, and left.

Here is an excerpt from his days at the University of Yale...in his own words.

Money

Lack of money constantly troubled me during my college years. But two experiences during my studies at Yale reminded me that God cared and would always provide for my needs.

First, during my sophomore year I had very little money. And then all of a sudden, I had absolutely no money---not even enough to ride the bus back and forth to church. No matter how I viewed the situation, I had no prospects of anything coming in for at least a couple of weeks.

That day I walked across the campus alone, bewailing my situation, tired of never having enough money to buy the everyday things I needed; the simple things like toothpaste or stamps.”Lord,” I prayed, please help me. At least give me bus fare to go to church.”

Although I'd been walking aimlessly, I looked up and realized I was just outside Battell Chapel on the old campus. As I approached the bike racks, I looked down. A ten dollar bill lay crumpled on the ground three feet in front of me.

Thank You, God,” I said as I picked it up, hardly able to believe that I had the money in my hand.

The following I hit that same low point again---not one cent on me, and no expectations for getting any. Naturally I walked across campus all the way to the chapel, searching for a ten dollar bill. I found none.

Lack of funds wasn't my only worry that day, however. The day before I'd been informed that the final examination papers in a psychology class, Perceptions 301, “were inadvertently burned.” I'd taken the exam two days earlier but, with the other students, would have to repeat the test.

And so I, with about 150 other students, went to the designated auditorium for the repeat exam.

As soon as we received the tests, the professor walked out of the classroom. Before I had a chance to read the first question, I heard a loud groan behind me.

Are they kidding?” someone whispered loudly.

As I stared at the questions, I couldn't believe them either. They were incredibly difficult, if not impossible. Each of them contained a thread of what we should have known from the course, but they were so intricate that I figured a brilliant psychiatrist might have trouble with some of them.

Forget it,” I heard one girl say to another. “Let's go back and study this. We can say we didn't read the notice. Then when they repeat it, we'll be ready.” Her friend agreed, and they quietly slipped out of the auditorium.

Immediately three others packed away their paper. Others filtered out. Within ten minutes after the exam started, we were down to roughly one hundred. Soon half the class was gone, and the exodus continued. Not one person turned in the examination before leaving.

I kept working away, thinking all the time, How can they expect us to know this stuff? Pausing then to look around, I counted seven students besides me still going over the test.

Within half an hour from the time the examination began, I was the only student left in the room. Like the others, I was tempted to walk out, bu I had read the notice, and I couldn't like and say I hadn't. All the time I wrote my answers, I prayed to God to help me figure out what to put down. I paid more no more attention to departing footsteps.

Suddenly the door of the classroom opened noisily, disrupting my flow of thought. As I turned, my gaze met that of the professor. At the same time I realized no one else was still struggling over the questions. The professor toward me. With her was a photographer for the Yale Daily News who paused and snapped my picture.

What's going on?” I asked.

A hoax, a fake,” the teacher said. “We wanted to see who was the most honest student in the class.” She smiled again. “And that's you.”

The professor then did something even better. She handed me a ten-dollar bill.

Monday, April 28, 2014

The End

My days are numbered
An end there is
My upspring I know
On stage I am

A choice left me
Of what nature the last
That now, the chance
And chance, time

A thought to ponder
And learn I must
To well do
And alone, I can't

What, then, make I
Of time and chance
Of spirit and talent
That last be good?


Wednesday, April 16, 2014

No Greater Love

Whatever their planned target, the mortar rounds landed in an orphanage run by a missionary group in the small vietnamese village. The missionaries and one or two children were killed outright, and several more children were wounded, including one young girl about eight years old.

People from the village requested medical help from a neigboring town that had radio contact with the American forces. Finally, an American navy doctor and nurse arrived in a jeep with only their medical kits. 

They established that the girl was the most critically injured. Without quick action, she would die of shock and loss of blood.

A transfusion was imperative, and a donor with a matching blood type was required. A quick test showed that neither American had the correct type, but several of the uninjured orphans did.

The doctor spoke some pidgin Vietnamese, and the nurse a smattering of high school French. Using that combination, together with much impromptu sign language, they tried to explain to their young, frightened audience that unless they could replace some of the girl's lost blood, she would certainly die. 

Then they asked if anyone would be willing to give blood to help.

Their request was met with wide-eyed silence. After several long moments, a small hand slowly and waveringly went up, dropped back down and then went up again.

Oh, thank you,” the nurse said in French. “What is your name?”

Heng,”came the reply.

Heng was quickly laid on a pallet, his arm swabbed with alcohol, and a needle inserted in his vein. Through this ordeal Heng lay stiff and silent.

After a moment, he let out a shuddering sob, quickly covering his face with his free hand.

Is it hurting, Heng?” the doctor asked. Heng shook his head, but after a few moments another sob escaped, and once more he tried to cover up crying. 

Again the doctor asked him if the needle hurt, and again Heng shook his head.
But now his occasional sob gave way to a steady, silent crying, his eyes screwed tightly shut, his fist in his mouth to stifle his sobs.

The medical team was concerned. Something was obviously very wrong. At this point, a Vietnamese nurse arrived to help. Seeing the little one's distress, she spoke to him rapidly in Vietnamese, listened to his reply and answered him in a soothing voice.

After a moment, the patient stopped crying and looked questioningly at the Vietnamese nurse. When she nodded, a look of great relief spread over his face. 
 
Glancing up, the nurse said quietly to the Americans, “He thought he was dying. He misunderstood you. He thought you had asked him to give all his blood so the little girl could live.”

But why would he be willing to do that?” asked the navy nurse.

The vietnamese nurse repeated the question to the little boy, who answered simply,

 “She's my friend.”

Col. John W. Mansur
Excerpted from The Missileer


Monday, March 31, 2014

One Good Turn Deserves Another...

One stormy night many years ago, an elderly man and his wife entered the lobby of a small hotel in Philadelphia. Trying to get out of the rain, the couple approached the front desk hoping to get some shelter for the night. "Could you possibly give us a room here?" the husband asked.
The clerk, a friendly man with a winning smile, looked at the couple and explained that there were three conventions in town. "All of our rooms are taken," the clerk said, "But, I can't send a nice couple like you out into the rain at 1:00 in the morning. Would you perhaps be willing to sleep in my room? It's not exactly a suite, but it will be good enough to make you folks comfortable for the night."

When the couple declined, the young man pressed on. "Don't worry about me, I'll make out just fine," the clerk told them. So the couple agreed.
As he paid his bill the next morning, the elderly man said to the clerk, "You are the kind of manager who should be the boss of the best hotel. Maybe someday I'll build one for you."

The clerk looked at them and smiled. The three of them had a good laugh. As they drove away, the elderly couple agreed that the helpful clerk was indeed exceptional, as finding people who are both friendly and helpful isn't easy. 
 
Two years passed. The clerk had almost forgotten the incident when he received a letter from the old man. It recalled that stormy night and enclosed a round-trip ticket to New York, asking the young man to pay them a visit. The old man met him in New York, and led him to the corner of Fifth Avenue and 34th Street. He then pointed to a great new building there, a pale reddish stone, with turrets and watchtowers thrusting up to the sky. 
 
"That," said the older man, "is the hotel I have just built for you to manage."
"You must be joking." the young man said.
"I can assure you I am not." said the older man, a sly smile playing around his mouth. 
 
The older man's name was William Waldorf-Aster, and that magnificent structure was the original Waldorf-Astoria Hotel. The young clerk, who became its first manager, was George C. Boldt. 
 
This young clerk never foresaw the turn of events that would lead him to become the manager of one of the world's most glamorous hotels. 
 
Don't be afraid to reach out and touch someone's life. You never know whose heart you may be touching.


Monday, March 24, 2014

The Blog, and Post # 1

Hello, everybody...here we go, our first post on our blog

Just working out the kinks and trying it out, but a short post is below...please review and feel free to share your thoughts---this is yours

A short story taken from a book I recently read---Chicken Soup for the Golden Soul.

Make Me Like Joe!

If you think you can't make a difference, think again       Paul J. Meyer

Joe was a drunk who was miraculously converted at a Bowery mission. Prior to his conversion, Joe had gained the reputation of being a hopeless dirty wino for whom there was no hope, only a miserable existence in the ghetto. But following his conversion to a new life with God, everything changed. Joe became the most caring person that anyone associated with the mission had ever known.

Joe spent his days and nights hanging out at the mission, doing whatever needed to be done. There was never any task that was too lowly for Joe to take on. There was never anything that he was asked to do that he considered beneath him.

Whether it was cleaning up the vomit left by some violently sick person or scrubbing the toilets after careless men left the men's room filthy. Joe did what was asked with a smile on his face and a seeming gratitude for the chance to help. He could be counted on to feed feeble men who wandered into the mission and off the street and to undress and tuck bed men who were too out of it to take care of themselves. 

One evening, when the mission director was delivering his evangelistic message to the usual crowd of still and sullen men with drooped heads, one man looked up, came down the aisle to the altar and knelt to pray, crying out for God to help him to change. 

The repentant drunk kept shouting, "Oh God! Make me like Joe! Make me like Joe! Make me like Joe! Make me like Joe!"

The director of the mission leaned over and said to the man, "Son, I think it would be better if you prayed, 'Make me like Jesus.'"

The man looked up at the director with a quizzical expression on his face and asked, "Is he like Joe?"     

                                                                                                        Tony Campolo